Internet Safety Tips For Kids and Parents

As parents, we are always teaching our children about safety. We tell them things like, don't talk to strangers, look both ways when crossing the road, don't accept rides from strangers and don't tell anyone you're home alone. The list goes on, and we believe that once they are in our home, our job is done. But that's no longer true.

The Internet, that wonderful technological development that gives us access to information, places and events all over the world, can also be a vehicle for harassment and criminal activity. Unlike other equipment that is produced using government-approved guidelines, no individual, company or government controls the Internet. That freedom has opened the door to a myriad of possibilities, both good and bad.

As with any technological development, there are security issues that children and parents should be aware of, understand and make the proper decisions. These include the potential for:

• Viewing inappropriate material
• Physical molestation
• Harassment
• Frauds and scams

Here are just some of the guidelines and suggestions as to how to ensure your child is safe when using the Internet and using the Internet appropriately:

Tips for Kids

• NEVER send anyone personal information, especially your address, telephone number, where your parents work or their phone number, or the name and location of your school.
• ALWAYS use a code name.
• NEVER agree to meet someone you have "talked to" online without checking with your parents.
• NEVER send anyone your picture - and don't accept any pictures.
• NEVER respond to any messages that make you feel uncomfortable. Tell your parents immediately.
• ALWAYS remember to use your safety sense online as if you were talking to a stranger in person. The person you are chatting with may not be the person you think you know.
• NEVER send a rude or insulting message to anyone online. This will make the person angry and could cause more problems.
• REPORT any harassment or threatening messages to the Police and your online service provider.
• MAKE sure your browser is set to refuse "cookies".

Tips for Parents

• Know what your child is doing on the Internet.
• Install computer-monitoring software so you will know the websites and chat rooms they are visiting, and the e-mail messages your child is sending.
• Look into Filtering Software that can block out objectionable material.
• Set guidelines for using the computer - monitor the amount of time and when your child uses it.
• Locate the computer in a "family" room rather that the child's bedroom or isolated in the basement.
• Reinforce with your child that they should never give out any personal information on the computer.
• Ensure that they use a code name on the computer.
  Never allow your child to meet a "computer stranger" alone.
• Be cautious of any offers that involve your child having to meet someone, or them visiting your home. Remember, you don't really know the person at the end of the Internet connection, and you may be in for a surprise.
• To avoid use of your computer when you're not around, create a password that is hard to guess but easy for you to remember - and change it often.
• Keep a close eye on your credit card bills.
• If you are suspicious of any online activities, report it to the police and ask for assistance.